Selasa, 15 September 2009

** it's called Freaky Tuesday**














yesterday i went to campus..oh god i really hate and love yesterday.why I HATE IT?i almost wait 2 hours and the lecturer doesnt come..me and some of my friends realy2 bored..so we decision to take any picture with fun pose..hahahhaa..after that we go to PIM to eat..and we have so much yesterday....

** The Meaning Of Friendship **

FRIENDSHIP??what is friendship?i think me and some other people dont really know aboout that.True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.

Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since time immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure.

Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as 'a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function'. This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others.

Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.

And you know i found my very2 bestfriend in my university.They are mutia,ridha,syfa,icha,egga,vici,nindy..i really love them so much..they always with me in good or bad condition..and i hope we will be a very2 good best friend forever,,,

** THR **



ooh GOD FINALLY!!after long time i dont post any blog..today i am going to blogging again..there some a reason that make me lazy to post the blog again..PRIVATE TROUBLE with some of my friend..but now i didn't mind again..ok now lets talk about THR.my dad gave me a THR..i am verry happy with that..so at sunday i am going to buy new stuff..i bought casio gold calculator data bank that i really want..after that i am going to senayan city for just hanging around.i am going to DEBENHAMS (it looks like department store in Jakarta) and i found those are shoes with valuable price..and i bought some stuff and accecories too..so i would like to thank to my dad....